Should I interfear in a divorce settlement if I have info spouse does not?
I know that a wife is leaving her children home alone in the mornings and has been sleeping with a married man (think this bit has stopped) as well as 2 other men. Should I tell her x husband what I know before the final divorce settlement and children's custody settlement at this point she has custody (he is a bit of a drinker)
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If you think the kids would be better off, then tell him, by all means. It’s the welfare of the children that is of PARAMOUNT
importance here!
Unless you have absolute proof, I recommend staying out of it. If the children are too young to be left alone and this is happening, the situation should be reported to the proper authorities (child protective services). They’ll decide from there who should have custody. Unless she’s having sex with these men with the children in the room, there’s not much that will be done about that. If his drinking is a serious problem, they could both lose custody. So… make sure that you have all your facts before reporting anything.
You aren’t going to do anything except make this more horrifying and difficult UNLESS you have hard evidence. Video, pictures or notarized statements.
Do you have any of this? If not, mind your own freaking business. It’s heresay if you don’t.
If you do, then hand it over to him in an envelope. He can decide what the best avenue is.
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question is does he drink to much to take care of his children properly does he get mean with them when he drinks
but as far as mom sleep around that is damage big time he needs to know
No. Hopefully, those folk both paid out the rear for attorneys, and that’s what attorneys are paid to find out. It is none of your business unless what you are not telling us effects the well-being of the children. If it effects the children, it’s your moral responsibility, and you should tell child welfare. Temporary desertion, as you describe, may be such an effect.
If you feel this poses a threat to the children, than yes. I phrase it this way bc I don’t know the ages of the children and for how long they are left alone for. It’s basically a matter of your word against hers. If you don’t have proof, it probably won’t effect much. But again, if you feel something could happen to the children, than go for it. Good luck. This is a touch situation.
I have a question for you… How does this involve you???? or better yet…. How is this your business??
No…..stay out of their affairs (pun intended) and call in an anonymous report to Child Protective Services and tell them that the children are being left alone. Just don’t get in the middle of the divorce yourself…….that’s somewhere you don’t want to be.
That’s a tough call to make.
As for the adults, they can rip each other to shreds for all I care…I wouldn’t care enough to interfere with them and their issues.
However, if there are children involved who are being neglected and/or placed in potentially dangerous situations, someone needs to step in.