is it okay to start dating if you are not thru the divorce yet?

lena asked:


seperated for over 4mo. definitly not getting back with that person- and on the way of the divorce want to know if its okay to start dating?

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ask your lawyer

do it

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NO! No way, wait 1 year after the divorce if final. If the person is worth it, they will wait.

Yes but its really difficult for someone to overcome a marriage from such a short period of time. Also people have a tendency to talk about their ex in a new relationship which makes the partner feel as if they’re not important.
I’m 15 and my parents divorce 3 times

My mom and my dad.

If you’re ready, then it’s ok.

Of course it is. Just try not to get too committed to someone so soon. Even though you may not think so, it takes time to get rid of baggage of past relationships. But get out there and have fun!

no, even though your not getting back together, it would still be cheating on him.

1 of the 10 commandments is to not commit adultery, and you are by divorcing, you are disobeying God. :(

Coming from a daughter of parents currently getting divorced…I’d say no. Especially not if you have children. I would definately wait until the divorce is final…besides, that could be used against you in some way with the opposing lawyer.

by all means go right ahead.if you feel uncomfortable with dating,then don’t. i’ve a been separated for years and been in about five relationships. never want to see that other person and she feels the same.

That’s not a good idea. Dating before a divorce is final is risky. Your dating partners could be brought into the drama and you could be cast in a bad light. It’s better to finalize the proceedings and then start fresh. Potential dates will be weary of your marital status. No reason to make yourself more vulnerable. good luck

the answer is REBOUND so beware of dating and getting screwed again. don’t do any serious dating for a little while. this can be used against you in your divorce. especially regarding children. so be cautious. ask attorney..

personally I think if you are not divorced yet whether you wanted the divorce or them I would wait until papers are signed because until those papers are signed you are married. And yes your heart is saying I don’t want the person back but wierd sh*t happens you know. My husband and I were going through a rough time and were going to get a divorce and both of us thought there was no way in hell we were taking each other back. Papers were filed Oct 10th and our divorce date was Feb 15th but 16 days prior we got back together and 3 yrs later we are still together. what I am trying to say I can look him in the eyes and say I was faithful to you until we signed. So I know I did right by my marriage. Even if the papers got signed on that day I could still say I was faithful to the end and all though I thought you were a straight Jacka** I did right by you.

Besides until you sign papers that crap can be braught up in court. And whoever you are dating can be dragged into it. Now if it’s like a yr later and your still waiting for the divocre then go get you a date.

As long as you’re upfront about your separation and the fact that you’re not yet divorced, and you are mentally ready to put yourself back out in the dating world, then I say go for it. Life’s not supposed to stop just because you’re getting divorced. Good luck, and take it slow.

I am separated for 3 years and did not get the divorce documents yet
and had not dated any body

ABSOLUTELY – I WAS LOOKING A LOT SOONER THAN 4 MONTHS AFTER THE BREAKUP

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